http://178620434.qzone.qq.com Wed, 03 Dec 2008 06:56:33 GMT Qzone zh-cn Copyright (C), 2005-2008, Tencent Tech. Co., Ltd. Mon, 01 Dec 2008 09:56:54 GMT http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1228125414 ——泰戈尔

世界上最远的距离
不是生与死的距离
而是我站在你的面前
你却不知道我爱你

世界上最远的距离
不是我站在你的面前
你却不知道我爱你
而是爱到痴迷
却不能说我爱你

世界上最远的距离
不是我不能说我爱你
而是想你痛彻心脾
却只能深埋心底

世界上最远的距离
不是我不能说我想你
而是彼此相爱
却不能够在一起

世界上最远的距离
不是彼此相爱
却不能在一起
而是明明无法抵挡这一股气息
却还得装作毫不在意

世界上最远的距离，
不是明明无法抵挡这一股气息
却还得装作毫不在意
而是用一颗冷漠的心
在你和爱你的人之间
掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠

世界上最远的距离
不是树与树的距离
而是同根生长的树枝
却无法在风中相依

世界上最远的距离
不是树枝无法相依
而是相互了望的星星
却没有交汇的轨迹

世界上最远的距离
不是星星之间的轨迹
而是纵然轨迹交汇
却在转瞬间无处寻觅

世界上最远的距离
不是瞬间便无处寻觅
而是尚未相遇
便注定无法相聚

世界上最远的距离
是鱼与飞鸟的距离
一个在天
一个却深潜海底
　　　人生如戏，须心如止水，拿得起放得下，
他们都说年轻人不要太气盛，我认为不气盛那叫年轻人吗
ミ愛上伱,我輸嘚徹底ミ~ 傷害我.如果你能ヘ 快樂ミ 那你繼續○oゞ愛の情→這ぐ東西い我玩メ不起+.o]]> http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1228125414#comment 1544 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 09:56:54 GMT http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1228125414 http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1227800231 去爱吧，就像没受过伤害一样
舞蹈吧，就像没有人欣赏一样
唱歌吧，就像没有人聆听一样
工作吧，就像不需要金钱一样
生活吧，就像今天是世界末日一样
——艾佛烈德·德索萨
我们总是相信，等我们结了婚，生了孩子，生活会更美好。等有了孩子，我们又因为他们不够大而烦恼，想等他们大些时，我们就会开心了。可等他们进入青少年时期，我们还是同样的苦恼，于是又相信等他们过了这一阶段，幸福就会到来。
我们总是告诉自己，等夫妻间任一方肯于合作，等我们拥有更好的车，等我们能去度一次美妙的假期，等我们退休后，我们的生活一定会完美的。而事实的真相是，没有任何时刻比现在更宝贵。倘若不是现在，又会是何时？我们的生活每时每刻都会有挑战。最好是让自己接受这一事实，无论如何使自己保持快乐的心境。
我很欣赏艾尔弗雷德·苏泽的一段名言。他说：“长期以来，我都觉得生活——真正的生活似乎即将开始。可是总会遇到某种障碍，如得先完成一些事情。没做完的工作，要奉献的时间，该付的债，等等。之后生活才会开始。最后我醒悟过来了，这些障碍本身就是我的生活。”这一观点让我意识到没有什么通往幸福的道路。幸福本身就是路。所以，珍惜你拥有的每一刻，且记住时不我待，不要再作所谓的等待——等你上完学，等你再回到学校；等你结婚或离婚；等你有了孩子或孩子长大离开家；等你开始工作或等你退休；等你有了新车或新房；等春天来临；等你有幸再来世上走一遭才明白此时此刻最应快乐……

Happiness is a journey, not a destination. So,
幸福是一个旅程，不是终点站。所以，
Work like you don‘t need money,
投入地工作吧，就像你根本不需要钱
Love like you‘ve never been hurt,
尽情去爱吧，就像你从未被伤害过
And dance like noone‘s watching.
纵情地起舞吧，就像根本无人观望。

原文作者是一位名字叫做 Alfred D’Souza 的神父，原文的主旨是在告訴人們要更加珍惜那些可以與別人共度過的時光，不要等待，沒有通往快樂的道路，因為快樂本身就是道路，是一段旅程，而不是終點~

原文：
Love like you've never been hurt .
Dance like nobody's watching.
Sing like nobody's listening.
work like you don't need the money .
Live like it's heaven on earth.
--------Alfred D’Souza


We always convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, than another. Then we are frustrated that the kids arent old enough and well be more contet when they are. After that were frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. we will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We always tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together. when we get a nice a car, and are able to go on a nice vocation. when we retire. the truth is, theres no better time than right now. if not now, when? our life will always be filled with challenges. Its best to admit this to ourselves and decide to be happy anyway.
One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred Souza. He said."for a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, someting to be gotten through firest, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness.
Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have. And remember that time waits for noone. So stop wailting until you finish school, until you go back to school; until you get married, until you get divorced; until you have kids; until you retire; until you get a new car or home; until spring; until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy….
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]]> http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1225263419#comment 134222344 Wed, 29 Oct 2008 06:56:59 GMT http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1225263419 http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1222783690 http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1222783690#comment 1536 Tue, 30 Sep 2008 14:08:10 GMT http://178620434.qzone.qq.com/blog/1222783690